A love note doesn't have to be flowery or sappy. It's just a way to express your love for your spouse in a way they'll understand.
As a husband, you don't want to ignore issues, but you don't want to be a bully. How can you find a healthy balance? Think CR-V: compliment, request and value.
How valuable is your spouse to you? When are you reminded of their value? Sometimes, all it takes for you to remember their value is a list.